Updated: Aug 25, 2020
Self-love is your secret weapon to living a fulfilling life. That’s because your inner world creates your outer world. Before you can receive love and respect from others, you need to love and respect yourself. When you love yourself fully you feed your soul and become the highest version of yourself. Self-love is important for numerous reasons. It has a profound impact on how we see ourselves and how we treat ourselves. Self-love allow you to understand better your inner self. No one has a better understanding of your innermost thoughts and needs than you do. Even when you try to share with others how you feel, they may empathize and show compassion, but they’ll never quite experience life the same way you do. Self-love motivates you to make healthy choices in life
When you hold yourself in high esteem, you’re more likely to choose things that nurture your well-being and serve you well.
These things may be in the form of eating healthy, exercising or having healthy relationships. You express your love for yourself by doing things that help you to show up in life as the best version of you.
Self-love is important also when it comes to setting boundaries in relationships
Having a clear understanding of what your boundaries are and being able to set them, communicates that you value yourself. As a result, you’re more likely to have more fulfilling relationships.
Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for the relationships you have with others. When you treat yourself with love and respect, you give others permission to do the same. I believe it is hard to love others well when you do not take the time to understand who you are and embrace your self. Its about accepting yourself how you are completely and loving yourself fully and unconditionally. Knowing that you are ENOUGH just the way you are right now in your life. You have always been and you always will be.
No one is responsible for their own Happiness but themselves, too often we look for outside affirmations to determine our sense of worth. When you take time to care for yourself and give yourself what you need, you are a much better partner, friend, etc.
You’re less dependent on waiting for others to fulfill you. When you already validate yourself, you don’t need other people to make you feel like you are good enough.
Many people don't actually see their value or worth
And THAT is what is getting in their way to manifesting an amazing partnership, having a job that they adore, having the wealth they want in the bank account and/or traveling the world full-time.
It’s one thing to DESIRE a man who treats you like a Queen, but if you’re not actually treating yourself that way, nor do you see your own value, you will never attract in someone who does the same.
And it’s the exact same thing for a job or lifestyle. You have to be the one to decide that you are worthy of it before you will ever manifest it.
Which is why what I teach always starts with self-love.
When you raise your opinion of yourself, you raise your value, which means every single thing in your life will up-level as well!
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